NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The beloved author of Lighter offers a blueprint for deepening your compassion, kindness, and gratitude so you can truly grow in harmony with another person and build stronger connections in all your relationships.
“A beautiful offering from the heart, to the heart.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
“Yung Pueblo holds a mirror to the relationships we have and offers clear directions to the relationships we desire.”—Simon Sinek
“How to Love Better is destined to change your life.”—Lena Waithe
“Everyone enters relationships with imperfections and negative patterns that block the flow of love, but when you embrace growth, the new harmony within you will flow into your relationship.”
Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and growth, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.
In How to Love Better, Yung Pueblo examines all aspects of relationships, from the rose-colored early days when you may be hesitant to show your full self, to the challenges that can arise without clear communication, to dealing with heartbreak and healing as you close a chapter of your life. The power of looking inward remains at the core of Yung Pueblo’s teachings. Ego and attachment can become barriers in a relationship, so the more self-aware you become, the more you can support both your partner and yourself.
How to Love Better includes:
• How to build harmony in a relationship
• How to see each other’s perspective
• How to find the right partner
• How to heal from heartbreak
• How to overcome attachment
• How to form commitments
• How to argue
Yung Pueblo’s insights on embracing change, building a foundation of honesty, and learning to listen selflessly will resonate regardless of where you are in your healing journey. And his unique combination of poetry, personal experience, and thoughtful advice will help you grow and strengthen all of your relationships.
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Publisher : Harmony
Publication date : March 11, 2025
Language : English
Print length : 352 pages
ISBN-10 : 0593582276
ISBN-13 : 978-0593582275
Item Weight : 14.4 ounces
Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.87 x 8.25 inches
Best Sellers Rank: #8,540 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #7 in Codependency (Books) #34 in Marriage #35 in Love & Romance (Books)
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13 reviews for How to Love Better: The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness, and Compassion
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K R T –
Wonderful book.
What a great read. Wisdom, calming .. it reflects the compassion it speaks of .Bought this at random , looking for a book on being present, listening,Wonder if he has books on the art of listening…?
Lucky L –
Nice book
Close to finishing! Great read for those looking to show up in love healthier and lighter. Isn’t just about romantic love. It covers a multitude of things.
Gigi –
Highly Recommend it
Such a great read! I’ve been applying a lot of what I’ve captured in this book, definitely some eye-opening aha moments.
Brianna Pastor –
This book is for everyone.
As a queer woman, I really love this book. The concepts are applicable to each individual person and very easy to understand and integrate into relationships. Personally, I even apply some of them to my friendships and found a lot of the concepts easy to customize through my own lens of trauma. Yung Pueblo never disappoints, and his wisdom is much needed in this world. Both the simplicity and complexity in his writing and explanations (through novels AND poetry) are unmatched and authentic. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world. You leave readers better than you found them.
Nikki –
Arrived Damaged
Item itself, great.However it arrived damaged due to packaging.
Kaylee Grace –
insightful
good book actually. i am learning a lot, i haven’t got too far in it tho
M Davis –
The “Love” We All Strive For
Bravo! Just finished reading another superb piece of writing and self-help literature from @yung_pueblo . This book has many complex themes that are conveyed in an easy-to-understand manner, especially to the reader. If you are looking for a book to help you understand the intricate concept of “love”, then this is the book for you. It’s pages not only impressed me with it’s clear and concise explanation of love in varied forms, but also allowed to simply apply it to my every day life as an individual, friend, co-worker, partner, and person in society. Thank you once again @yung_pueblo for providing us a relevant and much needed book full of teachings of growth, kindness, and compassion.
Amy Ha –
Engaging, Deep, & Helpful
I followed the author on Instagram when a lot of his posts sparked my interest. There’s a lot of depth and awareness in Young Pueblo and he just knows how to put everything into words that sometimes I’m just in awe of how he did so. It was hard to put this book down and I loved his writing so much that when I had seen he had a trilogy of self-help books I was excited to finish this one and start reading the others. I’m grateful for coming across this book and it has really helped me feel more empathy for my partner.
Shanzay Hayat –
Incredible book, really makes you look within.No fluff, straight to the point and practical. A great gift to yourself and your partner to read together.
Bo Mejdal –
Super interesting and useful book! Recommended 🙂
Trusky –
This book has become my relationship bible. Everyone looking to be in a healthy, happy relationship should read it (and make sure your partner does too).Yung Pueblo speaks simply and beautifully about the inner work we should all do prior and during relationships, alongside how to nurture a relationship constantly in simple ways. He tackles the reality that love is not enough in a candid yet kind way.Like with everything significant, it expects you to put the work in, but if your relationship means something to you, this book shows you that it’s not difficult, but consistency in applying simple principles will help you love well.Even if you’re not in a relationship, I recommend it on the basis of building a better version of yourself, because loving well starts with ourselves.
Mariposa –
Ich kann dieses Buch und Yung Pueblo als Autor nur empfehlen. Es hat uns in unserer Beziehung schon sehr weiter geholfen und wir lesen es oft gemeinsam.
Cliente exigente y satisfecho. –
El libro que deberíamos leer todos. Especialmente los jóvenes que están por casarse y quieren un matrimonio sano, o que viven en pareja y buscan una relación sana. Y no solo aplica para relaciones de pareja, también puede ser util para relaciones con hijos, padres, hermanos, etc.